Doctors and certitudes about IBS ! Why do doc’s think they know more about us, than we do ?


Getting on my soap box to scream a bit about Doctors. I am sure I am not the only one to notice that Doctors seem to run rough shod over just about anything WE might have to say. Case in point:

Recently saw a mess of GI docs. Told them all about my gut issues and why I think they are happening. Their answer ? To put me on what amounts to 100 times as much psyllium a day as I already take ( never mind I told them that if I do too much of it.. I get cramps, diarrhea etc ) a fact I have learned via nearly 15 years of trial and error. Did the docs listen to this ? Answer.. NO.. and insisted that THEY know best.. 

Ok. fine I take the stuff and the laxative they gave me, the very frist day on it.. ( after I choked it down ) within the hour.. cramps, diarrhea  and pain..it took me over a week to get it to settle down and stop doing that.

However, since I did promise to try, I went back to the meds and cut it down.. long story short here,  and it took two weeks of misery to find out, that in order to prevent the kick off to diarrhea and more pain.. I have had to cut it down less than a 1/10 of what they want me on.  Meaning, about what I expected the stuff to have to be, in order not to kick the other reaction off, based on my personal experiences..

Mind you, I am not just cutting it down, just to prove I am right. I did it their way, they said I could adjust it if it gave me problems, and I have, as I had to. The gut is still not good, but at least not MUCH worse than normal.

Now, several things are in play here with all this. The first being their arrogance in assuming THEY and only they, know best. Well its “worked for a lot of people” just try it they say. The pills you take everyday of the same stuff, won’t work they say, as you cannot just take them and sip a little water… never mind I have always taken them as they are supposed to be, which is with plenty of water, they ASSUME  that I am like so many others who take the pills, and do not do it right. Again, did they ask me how I take them ? Answer, NO. I all but bit the docs head off for that one.

That is just more of the all too common arrogance in assuming that I.. know nothing.  Their assumption of the dosage of the stuff they gave me, is based on three meals a day + snacks. I do lucky to eat, once. twice a day, tops. I told them this, did they listen ? No. 

What makes it worst of all is.. for weeks of extra bloating, pain, cramps etc. there is NO improvment in how the gut works or the problems that drove me to seek help in the first place. Just a lot more suffering.

I told them then and will tell them again, it’s not about consistency, it’s about function. As what I went in for, is to my mind, mechanical, the gut simply cannot do the squeeze and peristalsis motion….and a fast look around with a scope, would prove it.

They keep showing me the damn xrays.. tell me that they “look” normal, since they are not seeing any gross pinches of the gut or deformities. Never mind the ones who DID the test told me the gut was “twisted like a corkscrew” but apparently that notation, did not make it to the report.

Again I tell them.. that just shows you the inside of the gut, not the outside.. which by the way.. in my opinion. is the problem and told them exactly why. ( mind you I have been through this once before with adhesion’s etc gumming up the works.. and will bet with 95% certainly. that is the case .. now ) A good 14lbs of them were removed from my gut some 20 years ago, after my ovaries had bled necrotic matter into the gut cavity for years, and the body of course, tries to encapsulate it. Note: after all that was removed, the gut worked just fine.

Now, move forward 10 years after all that was removed, and the gall badder went totally south, to the point of being black, dead and gangrenous. Which would have, of course, pumped all manner of dead and dangerous stuff into the area around the gut, I nearly died over it all, .. notice this is again the same issue that created adhesion’s the first time…. just the source changed. Again, I told them all of this.

Now, since that time. the gut has not worked right, and it’s getting worse, but it looks like I will have to beat them all over the head with my cane, to get them to do the obvious, which is take a look.

If they can prove to me, that is NOT the case, that nothing is binding the gut in anyway, then fine, I am wrong and we have to look at other options ( I have news for them, IF that is the case, if they think I will take the crap they gave every morning of my life, they got another think coming ) but at that point, I will look at other options.. 

But I do not think I am wrong and I am not going to shut up.. until and unless, they prove it to me.. I know my body, I know its history, I know how it works and moreover does not work. I have treated myself for years and have found ways that let me at least have something like a balance with the beast.. and damn them, they ARE going to listen if I have to scream ! 

getting off my soap box now

BB

Esta

Update to this: I lost over 25 lbs over this and they were appalled…. and FINALLY listened to me and a few bright ones in the group, who had not been in on the original request, flat out told the ones who did order this fiasco… that they were fools to have ordered such things for someone with IBS ( nice to know not all of them are nit wits ) and they agreed with me, that adhesion’s were likely the cause here, but… they don’t do surgery anymore to remove them, unless they are cutting off the gut. So all of this, was for nothing………..sigh

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3 thoughts on “Doctors and certitudes about IBS ! Why do doc’s think they know more about us, than we do ?

  1. Doctors think they can tell you about you because they have the letters after their names and the pretty paper degrees all framed up in their offices. Of course they forget that everybody is individual, and individual mileages may vary.

    I hope you get them to hear and listen to you without too much violence–twisting necks is painful after all. 🙂

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